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How To Help Your Kids Have a Safe, Positive Relationship With Your Dog

At Tug-E-Nuff, we’re a family of dog lovers. We grew up surrounded by four-legged friends and between us we’ve got more than 30 now.

So we know how special it can be to live with dogs as a child can be - it teaches kindness, respect and a love for all living things.

But we also recognise the importance of encouraging a positive relationship between dogs and children that ensures everyone is kept safe.

child and dog playing on the beach

Just like every child is different, every dog is too - so it’s important to lay ground rules that work for you as a family. Having said that, we think the following tips are helpful to know…

‘Gentle hands’

Teach children from the earliest age possible to only use ‘gentle hands’ when playing with your dog, and never to do things like pull their tail or poke them in the eye. This type of play can cause even the most gentle and patient of dogs to lose their cool and react.

Spend time teaching children appropriate ways to interact with dogs under close supervision, and watch their relationship flourish. 

Choose suitable toys

Just like with grown ups, interactive play between children and dogs is a great way to create a strong bond. Toys are the ideal way to encourage this, but choosing the right type of toy for child and dog play is crucial.

Our chaser toys like our Sheepskin Bungee Chaser, Rabbit Skin Bungee Chaser With Squeaker or Faux Fur Bungee Chaser, are hugely rewarding for your dog and have lovely long bungee handles. 

This helps put some distance between your dog and your child during play, so they can have fun while staying safe. Opt for a bungee handled chaser, and you'll also reduce the tuggy impact for increased safety. 

Know when to step in

Children, particularly toddlers, can be difficult for dogs to understand because they don’t communicate with them like adults do. Likewise, children often don’t read the signs of communication from dogs well, such as when they want to be given some space. This is where problems can arise. Interactions between children and dogs should always be supervised, and always be ready to step in and give your dog - or your child - some separate space.

Positive reinforcement

Like with all aspects of dog training, positive reinforcement is the best way to get results. When your dog is gentle and well-behaved around your child, reward them. This can either be with a treat or a high value reward, like a play with their favourite tug toy.

person playing tug of war with dog

 Give one-to-one time

When a new baby arrives in the family, it’s normal for your fur baby to find the change in dynamics tricky at first. Take opportunities when you can to spend one-to-one time playing with your dog with an interactive toy to make sure they know they are special too.



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